Out of boredom, I checked whether anyone was still reading this blog which I abandoned yet again for months.
Thursday, August 14, 2014
Peekaboo
Posted by Mindy at 11:39 PM 9 comments
Saturday, March 22, 2014
Boys and their toys
The hubby and I have always been side by side since 14 years ago. And now and then, I have to go off for a business trip and leave him home alone.
Other random thoughts of my trip so far
- Hungarians are so friendly. I said in my previous post and I'll say it again
- Hungarians have 3 years paid maternity leave!! Can you imagine? And if they get twins, they get 6 years. And if they have another kid, they will continue to get another 3 years. So basically, they may never come back to work.
- Hungarians shake hands with everyone and will say hello to anyone that passes. If not, it's considered rude. So when one of my Hungarian colleague came to Penang, he kept shaking hands with everybody in the meeting.
- Hungarians are structured people. So I can imagine the challenges when working with the very unstructured free form Americans.
- It's seriously so hard to pronounce and remember Hungarian names. Like how would your pronounce Szabolcs? And all of them have the same names, making it even more confusing. @.@
- When I went to the warehouse, I saw a package from Altera. Suddenly made me miss Altera...
Posted by Mindy at 2:59 AM 2 comments
Wednesday, March 19, 2014
Hello Europe
So I'm in Europe now. First time in Europe since I was a kid. And I've finally overcome my fear of travelling alone for leisure (something I can check out from my bucket list). I've done it for business trips before, but never for a holiday.
I have to admit I was in a state of panic when I reached Amsterdam to find that I couldn't use my credit card for the lockers and didn't have any phone service and didn't have much local currency. But after panicking for about one hour wondering around the airport, I manage to get myself out of the airport, onto the train and into Amsterdam.
And all I can say is, Amsterdam is BEAUTIFUL. And after exploring the city extremely jet lagged, and not dressed well enough for the cold weather (in my state panic, I smartly left my gloves and scarf in the locker), I arrived in Budapest after 33 hours of travelling.
And here are some random thoughts for the day
- I love how everybody cycles in Amsterdam.
- Gathered all my courage to walk over to the Red Light District. Got shocked at what I saw, chickened out and ran off
- Towards the end of the day, my body was shutting down from the exhaustion and was too tired to think what to eat... so, I ate at the universal and reliable restaurant: McDonald's.
- Budapest is like a fairy tale. So fairy tales did exists a long time ago
- For some reason, I didn't go through any immigration when entering Hungary. I was feeling so paranoid about it until I checked and found others had the same experience
- Hungarians are so nice, friendly, and gentle. They open doors for me. No one open doors for me at home
- In Hungary, the button to flush the toilet is humongous
- My nose is bleeding here since is so dry here. And Americans who are in Hungary are complaining that it's humid in Hungary. How dry is Austin then? I'm so going to dry out like a salted fish when I'm there.
- I still find it magical when cars stop for me when I'm on the zebra crossing
- The food in Hungary is so salty. I will not be eating bacon for a long time.
- I'm jet lag but I'm not even going to bother adjust because I'll be flying to a different time zone in a few days time so it's a hopeless cause
- The hotel room does not have a kettle. They provide everything else that you wouldn't even think of, from allergic free rooms to personal trainers. But no kettle! So much for all the milo and instant noodles I brought with me
- When you travel alone, you're suddenly very aware of the travellers around you
- The toilets in Europe are so clean. And people queue up here. So different compared to the Forbidden City in Beijing where you literally have to push your way to get a glimpse of the royal throne.
- European tourist seem friendlier than Asian tourist. I was taking a selfie (because travelling alone means you have to pathetically take your own photos), and somebody saw and offered to take a photo for me. So now when I see other people take selfies, I offer to take a photo for them
- I'm sleeppy. I woke up at 4am
Posted by Mindy at 4:39 AM 2 comments
Thursday, December 26, 2013
The latest craze
So the hubby's latest craze is this.
The Tesco figurines. Spend RM50 in tesco and you'll get one sticker. And you don't get to choose when you redeem it which makes obsessive people like the hubby crazy over the challenge to get the complete set.
At first it was just these two. Someone commented that the 2 looked like the hubby and me.
Mindy - Iron Man because I'm always yelling at the hubby
Hubby - Captain America, always happy to annoy me equipped with the shield to protect himself when I burst
And now the hubby is suddenly very concern about my toiletries.
Mindy, you need more shampoo
Eh, you need more period pads right?
Mindy ah, we need more toilet roll.
As long as he finds an excuse to buy ONE thing, he will drag me to tesco, take out his calculator and start walking aimlessly around tesco finding things to buy until he reaches RM50. And then there's the panic at the cashier counter when the total comes out to be slightly less then RM50 and we just grab anything we can reach from the counter.
He keeps bugging everybody for stickers. So when the sister wanted to introduce her new boyfriend, she sent her boyfriend to get 2 stickers for the hubby to make a good impression. And I think it worked. ;)
So this is the hubby's collection so far. And after annoying me enough, I've reached out to the facebook universe to seek for help to exchange those extra ones we have for ones we don't have.
Please.. please... let us get the complete set soon before I really run out of space to put toilet rolls.
Posted by Mindy at 10:46 PM 5 comments
Thursday, December 12, 2013
The first project
We are starting to clean up around the home in preparation for our move next year (and I say we, I have to be honest and say it's the hubby).
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Thursday, November 28, 2013
The tale of two Foo Dogs
So I've been asked to blog about my trip to Beijing. If you ask me what was my most memorable experience there, I'll probably tell you are story of two Foo Dogs.
...and then... one wheel started to come off...
What really happened at the airport:
8.40pm - arrived at the airport, flight was 1.05am. Air Asia airport will close online baggage top up 4 hours before the flight which meant we had only 25 minutes to figure out how much we had to top up
8.45pm - Transformed into a mad woman running around the airport in panic finding a weighing machine to weigh the foo dogs. Hijacked an empty check in counter to weigh the luggage, unloaded EVERYTHING onto the floor to even out the weight of each luggage to be within the max of 32kg.
8.55pm - Practically screamed at the lady behind the counter to get the wifi password required to go online.
9.00pm - Panicking to death. Sat on the floor, emptied all the contents of my wallet onto the floor. Couldn't find my credit card. Panic... Panic... PANIC... then realized I my credit card was with my phone.
9.03pm - Frantically keyed in all the details online knowing that if I made one mistake, I would not make it in time. Managed to successfully top up the baggage allowance.
9.05pm - Suddenly very conscious that we were the only country bumpkins who were sitting on the floor with our belongings scattered on the floor.
When we reached Penang, we couldn't move. Muscles were punishing us after the Foo Dog incident. A few days later, the hubby could no longer move his neck. He had no choice but to go to the doctor and get an injection on his bum.
The hubby swore never to buy anything so heavy again. And now whenever I see the Foo Dogs who are happily guarding our door, I (who was so willing to throw them away along the way) will remember...
Posted by Mindy at 10:41 PM 7 comments
Sunday, November 24, 2013
A test
Want to test how well your other half knows you? Try this...
Say you have something to want to buy, like a handbag. After shopping the whole day and finding the one you really like, ask your other half to go into a the store guess which one you chose.
I asked the hubby to go into Charles and Keith to find the handbag that I picked. And so entertaining it was to see him as the only man in a crowd of women going around the store and carefully evaluating every handbag he saw.
Needless to say, he found the bag I wanted to buy. After 13 years, he better know! :)
Posted by Mindy at 1:45 PM 5 comments
Saturday, November 23, 2013
Let's see.....
3 weeks of culture shock.
3 weeks of "oh shit, why the hell did I decide to move?"
3 weeks of waking up before then sun rises.
3 weeks of dreaming of the previous company and missing the people.
And let's not forget,
1 close meltdown, completely freaking out about the magnitude of new things to learn.
You know that situation where after you completely freak out and go into a weird trance with a million thoughts going through your head? Then suddenly.... A moment of clarity (I think because the brains goes numb after so much panic) and you realize it's just about organizing the chaos and making a plan.
Then moving forward, it's about gaining small wins everyday.
Today's small wins...
...I slept until the alarm rang
...I think I managed to earn a tiny bit of trust from a team member
...I realized that I no longer feel like I belong to my previous company
Good enough progress for one day :)
Posted by Mindy at 12:24 AM 2 comments
Wednesday, November 20, 2013
I miss you
I miss my previous grey company.
I miss the milo making machine that greeted me during those mornings of desperate need for a quick breakfast before rushing off to start the usual meeting marathons.
(Now milo making here is manual)
I miss the nice big cube which was my second home
(Cube is smaller with medium height walls, but the good thing is you don't feel so isolated from everybody else drowning in sea of grey cubicles)
I miss being a Miss Know-It-All
(I'm Miss-Know-Nothing-At-All now)
I miss being an annual leave hoarder
(But I think that's better because the only time I take a break is when the company forces me to do so which means I'll be taking more breaks now)
I miss working on the software
(Do you know how freaking complicated Manufacturing can be?)
And most of all, I miss the people, knowing everybody and having everybody know me.
But..... I don't regret leaving. Because it was just time to move on.
Posted by Mindy at 12:49 PM 2 comments
Monday, November 18, 2013
Back again
Someone sent me a story he wrote and a beautiful story it was. Suddenly made me miss writing so I dug out this old blog of mine and I'm determined to revive it.
Just turned 31. Hate birthdays now. Which is a good thing for the hubby since he no longer has to do his annual last minute oh-shit-I-forgot-to-buy-Mindy-a-birthday-card panic shopping (truthfully I stopped asking for a birthday card after going through a few oh-shit-I-forgot-to-buy-the-hubby-a-birthday-card which often results in an ugly card from Tesco).
I remember that I once said that if I could choose to be an age forever, I would choose being 26. I think I like 30 more now? That's when you are at the peak of your career, have some extra money to enjoy, still young but old enough to be respected. I shall miss being 30 ( despite the fact that I spent the whole year fighting battles)
I reread all the post in this blog. It started as a I'm-so-happy-and-in-love blog in my mid twenties which then turned depressing as I hit the realities of life towards my late 20's. Then it went dead and got resuscitated now and then. I guessed that when I reached my 30's, I made a conscious choice to try to fix the problems that I control, and accept the ones and can't.
So here's to you, 30's. I hope you don't give me as much crap as your predecessor. But if you do, I guess I just to to kick you in the butt, one lesson at the time.
And note self, remember to stay HUMBLE and KIND and never think you are better than anyone else because once you do, you'll stop learning and miss out on the free lessons that life has to offer.
Posted by Mindy at 9:49 PM 1 comments
Wednesday, April 17, 2013
I shall blog again!
Damn, I have not blogged for ages.
Sudden inspiration to start again was caused by this sudden addiction to a recent Korean drama. Was so freakishly obsessed with it that I was reading blogs for episode reviews and suddenly was inspired by the witty writings of the blogger. I shall not reveal what drama is in since I'm quite certain that when I look back, I'd be embarrassed of what I was obsessed with ( I took me 7 tries before I managed to spell "embarrassed" correctly, eshhh)
I miss blogging. I miss being expressive instead of hiding within a shell. Sigh, life can be a drag and pull you down so low that you think the hole you dug for yourself has now become the most perfect dark but comfy place ever. But, I think I'm over the boo-hoo now (at least I think so)... at least until the next boo-hoo comes along. Then I shall move back to da hole.
I have a feeling that this is a one time spark to inspiration to blog again. Oh well, let's see.
I'm so sleepy. From being obsessed with candy crush, to a sudden obsession with Korean drama, poor me has been spending late nights catering to these obsessions and feeling like a hung over piece of crap the next day at work.
Okay, that's all the random junk from my sleep deprived head for now.
Posted by Mindy at 5:56 AM 2 comments
Saturday, December 15, 2012
Why why why why why
At work, I often have to deal with customer issues. And it's interesting to see how customers from different customers react to issues differently. For European and North American countries, they just want the problem fixed as soon as possible. For The Chinese, they will squeeze you for a better deal next time.
And for the Japanese... If you have to handle a critical issue from them, good luck to you. They are very particular about quality and if they find an issue, they will make you to apply the "5 whys" in order to find why the issue happened. Because if you ask yourself why to every answer given, you'll be able to find the real root cause of the problem in order to fix it.
My sister got fascinated by that theory. So I gave her an example.
Me: Why did your car break down?
Sister: Because the tires got punctured.
Me: Why did the tires puncture?
Sister: Because I didn't pump air into my tires.
Me: Why didn't you pump air into your tires?
Sister: Because I was lazy.
Me: So root cause of your car breaking down is because you are lazy.
My sister played it back with me.
Sister: Why did you marry YH?
Hubby: oh, I want to hear this.
Me: Because I've been with him for so many years.
Sister: Why have you been with him for so many years? How can you stand him?
Me: Because he makes me laugh.
Sister: Why does he make you laugh?
Me: Because... Because.... He's like a monkey.
Sister: Why is he like a monkey?
Before I could reply, she burst out in hysterical laughter
Sister: Because he is a result to Darwin's evolution. So you married YH because he's a Darwin evolution from a monkey.
I guess it does make sense... I think. :)
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Saturday, June 9, 2012
The Shoe Story
Every now and then the hubby calls me just before I leave for work. "Eh, are you still at home? I forgot to bring my badge, can you bring it over to me?" Or it's his watch, or it's something else he forgot to bring to work. Once I had to cancel my morning meeting because he went to work having to give a presentation during a meeting and he forgot to bring his laptop. And it's me to the rescue again, despite the fact that I have my own meetings that I have to rush to.
Two weeks ago, he called me the in the morning again, just before I was about to leave for work.
Hubby: Eh Mindy ah, are you still at home?
Me: Ya, what did you forgot to bring this time?
Hubby: Can you go to the shoe rack? And bring me my leather shoe.
Me: Huh? You want me to bring you your shoes? What's wrong with the one you're wearing?
Hubby: I wore the brown one and the black one
Me: *confused*, Huh? What do you mean?
I walked over to the shoe rack, saw one side of the brown Croc shoe and one side of the block leather shoe.
Me: You..... hahahahaha... wore.... hahahahha.... one side..... hahahahah..... of each shoe..... hahahahaha..... to work??????
Hubby: Ya.... quickly come over and bring me my shoe. Or not I don't dare to leave my cubicle.
Me: HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Hubby: Quickly come ah okay,I'm in a meeting now. Bye.
Me: HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
I had to cancel my morning meeting again to deliver one side of my husband's shoes to him. But this time it was worth it. I was practically crying from laughing too much the whole journey to work.
And just when I finally managed to calm myself from laughing, I saw the hubby running out of his office, wearing his brown croc shoe and black leather shoe. Hysterical laughter started again.
I love my hubby. After all the years, he is still so entertaining.
:)
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Monday, March 26, 2012
I'm no fake okay
The hubby recently told me that there's a stall near his mum's stall that sells fake branded handbags. He asked me whether I wanted one. I told him that I rather carry a cheaper Vinci or Charles and Keith bag rather than carry a fake branded bag. I'm not brand conscious. As long as it looks nice and it's not a fake, I'll be happy with it. And I always only have one handbag which I use until it's torn and tattered before buying a new one.
I went into the Coach shop in Gurney for the first time, curious to how much a bag would cost, so that I had something to compare to when I go to the Coach shops in U.S. next month. I'm already getting orders from others to bring back Coach bags and I just can't understand why women are so in love with Coach. I looked at the prices, almost RM2K for a bag, ridiculous!! The small bags cost RM725, my sister bought me one in U.S. last year for around RM100.
Anyway, yesterday morning the hubby pissed me off in the morning and then he left to help his mum at the stall. I went back to sleep and woke up to a over-excited jetlagged sister barging into my room who just came back from at a 36 hour journey from Chicago. She bought me this nice denim Cotton On shorts for guess how much..... USD2~~~~ * squealing and jumping in excitement over the bargain*
While I was sitting in her room watching her unpack all the goodies she brought back from U.S., the hubby came home. Soon after, the excitement died down and I was on the sofa watching T.V. The hubby suddenly passed me a plastic bag with a bag inside and said, "Nah I bought this for you".
I opened it and there was a Coach bag inside and I was like, "Huh???". The hubby never buys me anything, and suddenly he buys me this fake Coach bag from the stall next to his mum's? He asked whether I liked it, said he bought it for RM55 after bargaining from RM80 and asked whether it was worth it. At that very moment, many thoughts were running in my head.
"Crap, he bought me a fake bag"
"How can he buy me a fake bag after I told him I don't like to carry fake goods? Why doesn't he listen to me?"
"It's probably because he felt guilty for making angry this morning"
"Awww... he looks so proud of himself for buying a handbag for me"
"Nevermind, smile and pretend you like it. Then chuck into the cupboard once he forgets about it"
Through my fake smile I said, "Yesss.... very worth it". Pretended to pose in front of the mirror with the bag to make him feel proud that despite being a male, he still has the ability to pick a bag which his wife would like.
Then I started getting fascinated with how much effort the manufacturer put in to make the bag real. "Wah, they actually bother to put in a manual on how to look after the bag" and then I left the manual on the sofa. "Not bad ah, they actually can fake the leather smell so well".
I went into my room to take out the small Coach bag my sister bought me last year which I never used and started comparing the two bags. The style of the stitching was identical, and I was impressed. But then I looked into the bag and saw loose threads and was thinking, "Ha, they make the outside look so real, but inside it doesn't look so real".
After a while I suddenly notice the hubby and sister looking like that were going to burst from laughter. The hubby asked me, "What if I told you the bag was real?". I said, "If the bag is real, I'll kick your *toot* for spending so much money." I saw both of them crack up in laughter and I suddenly got confused.
I challenged him back, "If the bag is real, it will come with a Coach paper bag. You gave it to me in some market plastic bag." The hubby went into my sister's room and came out with a Coach plastic bag. I, thinking that Coach plastic bag was from my sister's previous U.S. trip last year, was still convinced that he was lying. I turned to my sister and saw that, she had a strange look on her face.
I suddenly put two and two together. The hubby asked my sister to buy a Coach bag from U.S. for me and they had planned this over the last few weeks when my sister was still in U.S.
Suddenly there was light shinning on the bag in my hands and it started sparkling in beauty. And I went to the mirror and started posing with the bag for real. I quickly went back to the sofa where I left the manual and put it back into my bag. Eh... the manual is also authentic Coach okay, no longer just a normal piece of card.
The hubby and sister spent the next half an hour laughing over the stupid comments I made. When I said, "they can fake the leather smell so well", my sister had to rush to the balcony so that I couldn't see her laughing.
The hubby said it was so funny that it was worth the money he spent on the bag. He said, it proved his theory that woman, including his wife who just a while ago boosted that she is not brand conscious, still in fact go for branded stuff.
It's okay, I'll let them make fun of me. I just had a stupid grin the whole day because my hubby bought a real Coach bag for me.
:)
Posted by Mindy at 6:45 PM 0 comments
Sunday, January 15, 2012
Saturday, January 14, 2012
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
Siri Argument
This is funny. If you don't know what Siri is, I sigh and shake my head at you.
http://www.collegehumor.com/video/6648229/siri-argument
Posted by Mindy at 8:19 PM 1 comments
Sunday, September 18, 2011
Unchanged
The most tiring weekend ever. Travelled to Kuantan for a wedding while having a fever and gastric. Ended attending the church wedding but skipped the dinner because fever wouldn't go down. Then the next of the whole was spent traveling back.
However it was worth it for the sake of childhood friendship. It's strange how life can change so much, we get married, have children, focus on our careers, go through the ups and downs of life and get just so busy, yet some things remain the same as if time has left it untouched.
I stayed over at my friend's house and it was me and her on the bed talking and talking through the night. Her baby was sleeping by her side.
Yet when I closed my sleep deprived eyes while talking the night away, we both were 14 years old again on one of the sleepover parties we had.
Hopefully we will still have moments like these when we are grannies. :)
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Sunday, September 4, 2011
Bali - Kajane Mua Villas
Bali is about street market shopping, beaches, spas and beautiful villas. Staying in a nice villa is part of the holiday itself so I booked Kajane Mua Villas after reading lots of good reviews on Trip Advisor.
The moment you step into this villa, you'll be treated like royalty.
- Beautiful beautiful beautiful (Did I not say enough through this whole entire post already?)
- I love how they place flowers on the tables, bed, even in the toilet.
- I really like the outdoor bath tub. Spent an hour in there. :)
- The private pool is big enough to swim around
- Very very nice staff who aim to give you the best service
- Free shuttle service around Ubud and they provide bicycles which you can use for free
- Very good location, it's strategically located along Monkey Forest Road, opposite the Laughing Buddha restaurant
- From their website, seems like they can arrange for all sorts of activities for you to do during the day time. I didn't try it though since we had lots of other things to do ourselves
- The breakfast was too simple for the price we paid for the villa. But it's a small tiny complaint
- The villa I stayed was right next to another villa. And at night, I would hear the TV from the other villa.
- In Nefatari Villa, everything in the fridge is free. This villa charges you for the drinks in the fridge (except for the mineral water)
Posted by Mindy at 6:16 PM 4 comments
Labels: Bali, In a strange land
Saturday, September 3, 2011
Bali - In Da Lodge
People like me (a.k.a control freaks) need to do lots of research before we travel. And one of the things I do a lot of research on is on the hotels that I choose to book online. I blogged about Nefatari Villas last year and I found that a lot of people view that page.
So here is my experience of staying in In Da Lodge. I booked this BB inn because of all the great reviews I read on Trip Adviser.
To get to In Da Lodge, drive along Jalan Raya Ubud and along the way you'll see this steep road where you'll see Klinik Dharma Usada. Once you see that clinic, there's a small little path you'll have to walk through to get to the inn (there's a sign to guide you).
- Good location, 5 minutes away from Ubud Market
- Quiet and peaceful surroundings
- Gives you the Balinese stay experience
- Warm friendly staff
- Serves breakfast to your room
- Wonderful view of the padi fields if your room is on the first floor
- Toilet not very clean, sink wasn't working, water may flow into the bedroom
- Rooms not soundproof which would be bad if there are noisy people staying near your (but the guest here seems more of the mature and considerate type, not the typical drunken youngsters you'll see in Kuta, so I doubt there will be problems with this)
- No reading lights, no TV
- Doesn't have private parking areas, you'll have to park on the street outside
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Labels: Bali, In a strange land


